Well, I'll start off by saying just on Saturday, December 12, 2015, I had a Miscarriage. It was my first child and I was 5 weeks & 4 days pregnant. My baby was supposed to be due around August 7-9, 2016, which is 5-7 days after what will be my 21st birthday. Well, I went to the ER Saturday night for bleeding and cramping. They took 3 tubes of blood, my levels were only 132. They sent me home after 3 hrs., on orders to rest in bed as they couldn't tell if I was miscarrying or not, it's too early to tell. Well, Monday, December 14, 2015, I saw my OB GYN  for the first time. He sent me back to the hospital for two more tubes of blood. He called me back Tuesday, December 15, 2015, stating my levels dropped to 38. My baby is gone. 💔💔💔💔💔 and I have a friend, who lost her 28 yr old son 6 yrs ago. She was negative about my whole pregnancy. When I told her I miscarried, she was a lil supportive then said she didn't want to talk about it. Well, I messaged her on Fb asking her if it would be too much to ask for her to let me talk about my loss. I tried to show her I understand she's had a loss too. But all she says to me is, "Yours was just a pregnancy. There's nothing to talk about." That literally made me break down. How could she???? Any loss, no matter when or how, is devastating! How could you say "just a pregnancy" to me???? How could you?!! My baby had a beating heart! I seriously wanted to ask her how she'd feel if she had a miscarriage and someone said that to her?!! To her face. But I'm far too devastated too. It's a good thing I work third shift, I've been crying all night. I swear that's one of the most hurtful things to say. I'm so sorry this was so long....I'm just so devastated. I just lost my first child. I'm 20. And for my friend to say this...just destroys me all the more. Haven't I been through enough?!! I'm so sorry ladies....💔💔💔💔