800 miles from any kind of family because my husband is active duty military. On Monday I had a procedure (ecv) to manually try & flip my baby head down because he's still breech. I must say it was a little scary. While I was in my hospital room waiting for the Operating Room to open up I found out someone ran into my fathers car causing an accident. his car wasn't as bad considering she hadn't stopped she just drove right into him. Hers is totaled. So between that & then my procedure not working & finding out I need a c section it was pretty stressful. Cue my annoying mother. Between it being her car & pissed off about it getting damaged & her worrying about me she somehow manage to make it all about her. After my procedure I had to stay overnight because baby's heart was in a lot  of distress from trying to move him that they didn't want me going home just in case. My mom just kept being negative & saying how crappy a day it was. Now we're talking about how long she's going to visit since I'll need help. & to be honest I need the help but I REALLY don't want her & her negative attitude around me. It's exhausting. I keep saying... Dads ok.. The lady has insurance.... I'm ok... My baby is ok...be positive but all she wants to do is yell & say she has a right to react. Of coarse... To other people not me? Because it stresses me out. Am I crazy & I sensitive? Now I'm just like should she come to help or just to see baby & then go. If she can't control her negative txt how is she gonna be on my c section day or after. She never sees the big picture she always somehow makes it about her & now I'm just like... Crap. She's my only option but I'm not sure I want it.