I need advise on what to do to stop thinking about getting pregnant. It's all I think about! I know this isn't helping with getting pregnant but how can you not? I have had irregular cycles all this year and my husband and I have been trying for a year now. It started to get on cycle even though it was 14 days apart. I went to the doctor and she doesn't think I am ovulating. I tested my thyroid and hormones and everything came back okay. I have another appointment at the end of January to test more but I don't want to wait that long! Now I'm about 35 into my cycle and still no AF... BFN also! I'm getting discouraged and I just want to enjoy the holidays. Does anyone have suggestions??