Am I wrong for telling him this? 😕

Okay so I can be a controlling bitch sometimes and I never even realize it till hours later when my boyfriend is upset and I'm apologizing to him for being an ass. I told him that I want him to put me in my place 1.because sometimes I can get out of line and not even realize how I'm acting 2.its super fucking hot.. And I feel like I'm degrading him or making him feel weak or less of a man when I tell him these things.. And that is not how I want him to feel at all. I was just trying to be honest and tell him to tell me to stfu sometimes when I get out of line.. Am I wrong for telling him this? Do you think I'm making him feel like less of a man telling him this?