When people tell other people to just put their baby up for adoption🙄

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Does anyone else get super annoyed when someone on here posts about not wanting their baby and then there is a handful of people who say "just put it up for adoption!"😑🙄
It's not JUST putting it up for adoption... Do you know how many kids are waiting to be adopted right now? Do you know how much adoption costs? Not everybody can afford to adopt a child. It's very expensive. There are enough kids waiting to be adopted as it is. It's just so sad to think about.

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I hate when people suddenly find it the appropriate time to interject their religious beliefs. 😑

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I agree. There are too many people who beg to people to put their baby up for adoption rather than abort. 
1. Why would a woman want to go through an entire 9 months for a pregnancy that she doesn't want
2. There are kids who are waiting to be adopted already
3. There aren't enough people who want to adopt to keep up with the amount of kids who go into adoption places
4. If a woman seriously doesn't want the pregnancy, abortion is always an option
Who is to say that abortion is worse than adoption? With abortion, at least the kid doesn't have to live wondering "when will someone finally take me home"

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Some people say it as a suggestion. I have seen people on here beg women to choose adoption, but i have also seen people just simply suggesting it as another option. Every one of those kids in the system deserves a home and it is sad some of them wont, due to age etc. But that doesn't mean , because that happens that no baby should be put up for adoption because there are still kids in the system. In an ideal world, every child should have a happy safe home.

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I mean, what else do you suggest for someone saying "i don't want my baby".....??

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What are we supposed to say? You can't say abortion, you can't say adoption, jeez! The woman is obviously pregnant and doesn't want it so what else can she do? I'd rather she didn't raise a child she never wanted and resent it. You can't go back in time and make sure she doesn't get pregnant.

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It's better than allowing the child to grow up with parents who don't want them and who could potentially abuse them.

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Complaining about people saying to put a baby up for adoption is just as bad as the people saying to get an abortion!

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No one deserves to be treated like a brood mare and the adoption rate is just as low as it's always been. People either want their own biological children or its too difficult to adopt for a plethora of reasons.

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Adoption is worse than abortion in my eyes. No I don't feel the need to explain why.

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For those who seem incapable. I'll put the rules here for you.

When people tell other people to just put their baby up for adoption🙄

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