I just don't understand how one can post questions or comments and get a bunch of replies back from it but then when someone tries to ask a serious question they only get one response back I just don't understand how that can happen.  I joined the group and I hope to get some light on different situations and to understand what some of the terms and things mean but I feel like every time I have posted something I've been downgraded or bashed against because the simple fact that I was asking for a vice and help on certain things.