Does anyone feel this way?

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So only been trying TTC for a month this is my second month .... But does anyone ever ask themselves can they even have kids? Lol I know it sounds retarded but last month nothing happened and I've always used the "pull out" method with my husband before we started trying... So I'm like can I even get pregnant lol

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My hubby and I did all the time. We have been together for nearly five years and always used the pull out method until we decided to try for a baby. I was about to get those reproductive health vitamins when I realized that AF was late and got my BFP.

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I feel that way every time AF arrives. Been trying with my partner for 7 months now and it's really getting me depressed. My main concern is that I had an STI when I was younger and I don't know how long I had it. Also my partner had to have a fluid pocket removed from his testicles a few years ago so I worry that maybe his swimmers are not up to the challenge anymore.

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Same! I was on the pill for 12 years, then 3 years ago stopped taking it, and we've used the withdrawal method since then. It makes me nervous that over the past 15 years we haven't even had a "pregnancy scare" and I'm sooo paranoid that I can't get pregnant. I'm currently starting my first fertile week TTC...so we'll see how it goes!

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Yesssss!! I feel the exact same! Only difference is my SO and I have been together 5 years and have been having unprotected sex for 4 of those. (Not actually trying but not preventing) & weve never even had one "oops". Its so depressing! We just recently started trying also, this is our 2nd month really trying and tracking every thing using opks and all that fun stuff. I constantly freak out thinking something is wrong with me and that I'll never be able to fulfil my dreams of one day having a child and family! 😔😞

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Same. My husband and I always used withdrawal method. I alao had the fear that I couldn't have kids. My first pg was a chemical pregnancy. It was heartbreaking but I am comforted to know his little guys can reach my eggs.

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I've always been scared that something is wrong with me, even before I started TTC.. it's so weird but when I was younger I used to be worried that when I want to have kids I won't be able to and now we've been ttc for 5 months and NOTHING..😞 the testing is so expensive my doctor told me to wait until we've been trying for a year before wasting money. it sucks

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I feel the same way i have to undergo procedures to see if they are the reason I have t been able to conceive a child yet 😫😫

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I do, all the time. Me and my ex boyfriend tried for a baby and it never happened and when He got a new girlfriend he got her pregnant after a month. Now me and my current SO are tying for seven months now and it hasn't happened. Starting to think there is something wrong with me.

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I feel the same exact way. Been TTC since we married in April.

Was on BC for around 10 years. Was off of it from Oct 2010 till Feb 2013 and never got a period for those few years, though I was terribly overweight. I've since lost around 100 lbs. In Feb 2013 I started my period when I started back taking BC. Came off of it this past March, Married in April, and proud has been perfectly regular ever since,  but still no BFP for us 😢.

Trying to be patient is exhausting and depressing, but prayer has gotten me through.

Baby dust to you and I. I'm here if you need to vent.

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I feel the same way! Been using pull out method for 2 years and was always scared of getting pregnant so I got on BC This is my last few days on the depo shot and now I'm going to start TTC

Does anyone feel this way?

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