HELP!! So, my boyfriend and I had been together for almost three years when we broke up shortly before halloween. During the break, he dated two other women, one of whom he fell for. We recently decided to work it out, and I am due to move back in this week. However, he has been painfully wishy-washy as of the past couple weeks, and depending on what she says to him, goes back and forth on our relationship status. Normally, I wouldn't pressure him to make a decision like this quickly, however, today is the day I wad supposed to start moving in, so it is now a time sensitive issue.

This morning, he admitted outright that he wants me to get pregnant so it will be easier for him to let go of these other women. I want to go for it. After all, he comes from an amazing family, and my body definitely agrees with the idea. I want so badly for this to be the beginning of the rest of our lives!!

Why does he say need need to be forced into starting a family? Is it possible he's just the type of guy that needs things done the unconventional way? Is he trying to trap me so I will stick around no matter what he does with who?

I would greatly appreciate any ideas, advice, and or answers. I am totally confused no matter how much he and I talk about it. HELP!!