Can't orgasm with SO

Renae
I told my s/o, previously, that I'm hardly having orgasms & we tried every position. Every once in a while I'll have one. To this day we're still having this problem. I didn't have this issue until after my biopsy in '13. What do you do when you have better orgasms with your toy than you do your s/o? Will this affect me conceiving?