SO drinking while you are pregnant

How do you feel about your significant other drinking while you're pregnant? A few drinks here and there doesn't bother me but taking advantage of me as your DD (as many of his friends do to their wives while they get regularly wasted) while I'm growing our child does. Luckily, so far, husband respects my feelings about it but sometimes I feel bad that it bothers me. How do you feel about the situation?