I am a first time mom...and I am so sorry but I cannot STAND to hear one more person say to me "just wait" or "you think this is bad haha you have NO CLUE what you are in for!" I just don't get it?!?!? Why do people even want to ask me how I feel if your just going to brush aside my answer and try to scare me into thinking I'm heading into hell? I think I can figure out without anyone shoving it in my face that giving birth is painful. But I am trying to stay positive and not stress myself into worrying about it! But it's like some people just can't wait to try to horrify me. But I don't get why?