Hi my name is Raqueal and I'm 23. I'll be graduating with honors in May and I have an amazing boyfriend that's been with me for about 5 years. He's 5 years older than me and he's ready for a family. Honestly I've been thinking abt it for a long time and I do want to be a mommy. But I have lupus and I'm just kinda scared about the entire process. What should I do? 🤔🤔