My boyfriend and I were in a fight over something I really disagree with (for good reason) that he does. He told me that when he told his friend that I didn't like that thing and was willing to break up with him over it, his friend immediately said "drop that bitch." Later I brought it up to my bf and he said his friend was just joking. Joking or not, I felt like this was a really rude comment to make about me, and my boyfriend just brushed it off. He doesn't see why it bothers me since he and his friends say stuff like that all the time, but I don't want his friends saying stuff like that about me because we aren't close and it is disrespectful to me and kind of hurtful. I know I wasn't meant to hear it, but does anyone else think this is kind of rude for him to have said? And that I should expect my bf to ask his friends not to talk like that about me? Or am I overreacting