So my husband and I have been married for almost 4 years come March. He won't take me on a date take me to parties or even just do things on the weekend as a family. I mention it to him and he says he's going to start but I'm tired of waiting. I feel that he is either ashamed of me or has something else on the side. He has a lock on his phone and whenever I am off of work he comes home any where between 3 am to 7am and had the same excuse everytime. I was at the casino with my cousin or at my cousin house playing the game. All while I bust my behind everyday at work then home to take care of our children. Am I wrong for wanting to file for divorce or am I over reacting?