I know I'm not that far a long, I'll be 24 weeks Tuesday and nobody has mentioned anything about a baby shower. Considering both of our families live in such awkward areas it's never a surprise baby shower because I'm usually trying to find a "middle" to make it fair for everyone driving. This isn't my first child so should I assume I have to figure it out myself or wait and see if someone speaks up. I know my mom won't be throwing me one because she rarely talks about this baby at all so I don't expect it from her. I thought we were done and couldn't have babies anymore but here we are 6 years later and boy #3 and NOTHING left lol  I just don't want to seem rude like I'm expecting someone to do this for me but I also don't want to come off as pushy and plan this thing myself! Ahh