Regular Cycle- No BFP- Why Not??

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First off, I know, be patient, it'll happen, lots of other women wait even longer, etc. I'm trying to be patient but I feel like I'm missing something. My cycle is super regular, like clockwork 31 days. I take prenatals, temp, and use ovulation trackers. I'll get the smiley, and my temp rises the next day so I'm fairly certain that I'm ovulating on time. My husband and I have sex every other day for about 2 weeks around peak day. We've tried preseed, coconut oil, and lube-less, but we still haven't gotten pregnant. It's been 10 months of this and I just feel like I'm missing something! Does anyone have any other suggestions of things we could try? He got tested and count/mobility were good and I got my tubes checked last week and they were both open. I'm baffled, but we'll keep trying. :)

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So my update is incredibly late, but I actually got my BFP that same month and now have a beautiful 15 month old baby boy! For anyone curious, I fell pregnant right after I got my tubes checked. I heard that sometime that can blow out the tubes and basically make it easier to get pregnant, but who really knows! I continued to just do the BD every other day from the end of my period until 4-5 days past peak day. 🤷‍♀️

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My doctor told me that in order to catch the egg you have to have sex on peak day & then the next 2 days as well. So 3 days in a row. But to have sex every other day up until peak day.

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Any updates Kayla? My husband and I are in the exact same boat. We both have glowing health reports and not one bfp:( Have you gotten a bfp yet?

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TTC is so frustrating. We've tried for a long while now, had everything tested, etc. and we're both normal. We've tried every other day during fertile week, every day during fertile week, we've used OPK's / BBT..you name it. I'm on prenatals. We even did clomid/IUI with 40million Sperm post wash and 3 mature follicles = still BFN. Now we're moving on to IVF since insurance covers it. Again, my DH and I check out completely normal. It baffles my mind honestly. I think God has a plan and hoping this month is my month. I will say it doesn't hurt to get everything checked out. Best of luck to you!! I hope you get your BFP soon!

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Maybe get a referral from your OB GYN to a reproductive endocrinologist as you sound pretty regular to me and you've ruled out his sperm and your physical issues. Have you done bloodwork to check your hormone levels? Only other thing I can think of. Best wishes and baby dust to you!

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Try BD every day that’s what we did in December but all I have right now is cramps and spotting so I won’t even know what’s going on till after the spotting stops

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Any luck yet, girl? My hubby and I are in the same boat too. I haven't had my tubes checked as to my doctor wanting to wait until we've been trying a year, but I've had blood work and he's been checked. Both all good. It's so frustrating!

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I tried going off of ovulation days and everything to no avail..it seems if I have sex with my husband the same day my period ends (the last spotting has disappeared), I am able to get pregnant?

I don't know.

Just a thought.

Regular Cycle- No BFP- Why Not??

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