Can you fall out of love?

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I've been with my fiancé now for 3 years! We bought our house together and have lived together for 2 years and been engaged one. For about 3-4 months now he has been constantly grumpy and moody and gets aggressive when I ask him to do things with me. He was really sweet when we first got together now he swears at me and talks to me like shit on his shoe. He has recently lost his job but already started a new one but is taking his anger out on me he makes me feel totally worthless. 😭

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I've seen a lot of relationships where the man is insecure or feeling inadequate and takes it out on the woman. Talk to him and try to work through it because it's not okay to be treated poorly but i don't think you should give up on him just yet.

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Yes you can fall out of love but don't jump to conclusions. He may be going through something behind the scenes. May have something to do with providing for his family. Now him talking down to you and making you feel like shit you shouldn't stand for. You need to call him out on his bs when he starts acting like that.

Do you feel like the love between you two has faded?

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The stress of unemployment and feeling like they have to be a provider is really tough on men. I'd try talking with him about it and set some ground rules about respect/communication.

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Time to have a serious conversation and ask him what's up. If he doesn't take responsibility and make some changes, it's time to jump ship. This is abusive behavior and will get worse.

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People say you can throughout the years but I haven't. I was dating my husband for about 5 years before we got married (been married a little over a year) and we lived together for about 4 years before marriage. We definitely went through rough patches and he was a jerk. We even broke up for about a month. But I can honestly say I never stopped loving him or getting those butterfly feelings. About a year before he proposed he just drastically changed. He became so thoughtful and sweet and just really a whole new man. And he's still getting better. But honestly if he hadn't changed like that, I wouldn't have married him. If you're having those feelings now and things don't change, I would think long and hard about the wedding. I've known a couple of people who dated for years, got married and divorced shortly after. I can't help but think they had doubts but just went through with the wedding hoping things would change. I would have a serious talk with him if I were you. Good luck ❤️

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Wow... yea he may just be stressed out. But he can't talk to you like that. Don't deal with that. Be like... I know you angry and all but I'm still me. And this doesn't feel like love. Then walk away. Trust me he'll think.

Can you fall out of love?

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