Let's start with some details.. My partner have a 2yo son he will be 3 next month, we are currently expected baby #2 in August, we just moved into a new apartment, we need blind for said apartment, we also need washer & dryer and a new couch.

So here's the deal my partner has been wasting money on fast food and buying things for others as going out partying a lot and wasting money on booze. I confronted him about it and explained to him he needed to watch what he spends because we have things we need to do.. He acted like he understood but a couple of days late he was at it again. I confronted him once more an this time he gets offensive and tells me he's a grown man and I told him he needed to grow up because he has responsibilities. He then proceeded to tell me that it's his money and he will do what he wants when he wants. He then changes the password to the money account so I can no longer check balance. He went to a party that light and lost his money card (we haven't set up bank account yet so his job pays on a card) we no longer have access to the money so he wants to waste every penny of the Christmas money my family gave us for the thins we needed. He now keeps telling me not to worry about his money and that I'll no longer see another penny of it all because I told him o wanted all the money we spent out of our Christmas money put back! Am I going crazy or is he really being an immature asshole?? Oh yea an I'm the bitch because I am trying to be responsible and save hat I can for my son and the things our family needs! Need advice I don't know what to do anymore 😕