STUPID "ARGUMENT"

SO WE WERE JUST SITTIN TALKIN LIKE WE ALWAYS DO, WHEN HE HAPPENED 2 TELL ME SUMTHING THAT HAPPENED WHILE HE WAS SO CALLED WITH THE GUYS A CPL WEEKS AGO... THAT I REALLY DIDNT LIKE! I DIDNT ADDRESS IT, BUT HE COULD TELL BY THE LOOK ON MY FACE I WAS UPSET. INSTEAD OF ADDRESSING IT, I JUST SAID LETS HAVE SEX. SO B4 WE COULD EVEN GET IN2 IT, HE GETS UP & WALKS OUT.... SAYIN HE CAN TELL I WASNT IN2 IT. (Which I wasn't, YET) BUT IM LIKE, I MEAN WATS THE PROBLEM? IF I DONT WANNA TALK ABT IT, LEAVE IT ALONE. LET IT PASS... BUT NO. HE CANT DO THAT. INSTEAD HE WITHHELD THE SEX.... IM LIKE... THATS Not FAIR! I REALLY WANTED 2 HAVE SEX. && IT SEEMS EVERYTIME I DO OR SAY SUMTHIN HE DOESNT LIKE, HE WITHHOLDS THE SEX.... && THAT BOTHERS ME. IT SEEMS LIKE HE TRIES 2 CONTROL ME WITH IT....SO NOW IM JUST ON THE VERGE OF SHUTTING DOWN PERIOD. CUZ I CANT LET HIM THINK HE CAN CONTROL ME LIKE THAT..... HE SAYS I THINK OUR RELATIONSHIP IS Based ON SEX... WHICH IS TOTALLY NOT TRUE...I LOVE HIM, & THE SEX! BUT I WILL NOT LET ME CONTROL ME WITH IT!