Anal..?

Question

I've always told myself I would never do anal.. But my boyfriends friends have and a friend of mine has.. And I've heard nothing but good things.. I'm just afraid of well, tearing or it hurting like a b! I know you have to use lube, a lot of it and I've never used lube for sex before!

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This might sound gross but if you let him eat your ass it loosens the muscles and makes you more relaxed(it also feels really good!). My boyfriend and I didn't use lube we just used spit which worked really good. It might feel uncomfortable in the beginning but you get used to it after a few seconds

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My boyfriend and I just recently had a full anal sex experience (like I mean we just did it lmao). Yes, I was hesitant too but I was also kind of willing. Here's what I learned: 
A lot of teasing and foreplay is important. It helps if your partner performs anulingus (aka eat the booty like groceries) and gently/slowly plays with the bootyhole with the tip of their finger, almost like massaging and gentle prodding the butthole. After a while, and with lots a lube, let your partner actually insert a finger (or 2...or 3, whatever) just so you get used to the feeling of something foreign in ya butthole. This can also help your body from involuntarily contracting the anus and also lessen the "I'm gonna shit myself" feeling. Then they can slowly insert their dingaling in your pooper (when *you* feel ready), again with lots of lube. There's no such thing as "too much" lube when it comes to the butt. 
I gotta say (tmi?) I was so worked up when we did it that it didn't hurt *at all*. It actually felt kind of good and the "I needa poop" feeling was nonexistent after all the foreplay and preparation. 
Good luck!

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it hurts soooooo bad sharpest pain ever

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