Anxious

I had some bleeding on Friday night, red and what seemed like quite a bit. I called the triage nurse and she said as long as it didn't last more than 48 hours, wasn't heavy that I was probably fine. She said it would likely also not be necessary for me to be seen any earlier than my next appt (1/22). She did say, she did not think it was the first sign of a miscarriage--but you never know. The bleeding stopped pretty quickly, never really experienced cramps.

Today, I contacted my doctor's office to discuss it with them. They also said it was a good sign that the bleeding stopped and I was not having any cramping associated with it. When I asked if it would be possible to come in and get some reassurance that everything was okay, I was told "even if you were miscarrying , there's nothing we can do to prevent it"--which I'm fully aware of. She basically told me no, they won't see me to get confirmation that the baby is okay. I understand somewhat where their coming from, but would rather know now than 3 weeks from now if something had gone wrong. 😦 trying to be positive, but finding it hard.