Am I old fashioned or is this a problem?

Taiya
My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. We went to high school together but didn't meet until our 2nd semester of senior year, graduated together in May of 2015, and started dating a week after graduation. I recently turned 18, while he is turning 19 very soon. He has had a few relationships (I am his longest) and a few one night stands. This is my FIRST relationship and he was my first kiss. Now, I feel like I did everything at the wrong time and have told him once a month ago that I felt like a slut. I gave him a handjob after a month of dating, blowjob after almost 3 months, and we kind of had sex around our 6 month. I told him that I felt like it was all too soon. I don't regret doing it (although I kind of regret the sex part. It was rushed, in his messy room and lasted 10 minutes because I had to go home), I just don't like the timetable of it all.
He insists that its perfectly normal and that I am just a bit old fashioned. He also stated I am not a slut, which I don't feel like I am any longer, and if I was we wouldn't be lasting as long as we have. 
Is he right? Am I just overreacting and a little old fashioned? 
I read a lot and sometimes worry that warped my idea of relationships and sex, although I have read many adult books or teen fiction books where it's not all rainbows and unicorns.