Hi you guys! Im in a bit of a dilema and i would so appreciate your opinions:

So my 21 year brother whos in college lives with me and ive never had a problem having him there but recently i feel he completly takes advantage of my husband and i . why? Well he doesnt pay rent and we pay for all his basic necesities (sorry for the grammar) like food, internet, water, heat, etc and on top of that my husband is giving him a brace treatment for free. BUT my brother is always complaing about the food i make, takes forever in the shower with hot ass water, he borrows our car all the time, when we eat out we buy him some too and never even helps out with chores. On top of that he wants my husband to pay him for working on our farm. Worst of all he always tells people hes broke, but he has 3 scholarships, my mom and dad give him money and he rents out my parents house for money. And recently he told me hes buying a very cool motercycle so he can go with his buddies.

Am i being a bitch because i intend on telling him off? I feel bad for my husband especially because im a stay at home mom. Opinions please and sorry for such a long rant.