What should I do?

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I have a 5 month old child & I broke up with her father in December bc I was so tired of not being able to trust him at all. He's cheated on me and I don't believe he ever stopped but for my 18th birthday we got a hotel room and I went through his phone and saw that he was talking to a lot of girls trying to have sex with them and stuff so I cried and broke up with him.

I went to the club the next night and had a great time. I met this guy who's 23. He took me out on a date and made me feel like a princess. He was such a gentleman and he turns me on with every move like holding my hand or kissing me. He begged to eat me out and it was amazing and I ended up having sex with him. I felt so bad & guilty but why should I? I was single and haven't had sex with anyone but my ex for 3 years.

I continue to go out with the guy I met at the club but now my baby's father wants to get back with me and I love him but I'm having fun being single and the guy I'm involved with now shows me life and makes me happy. I don't want to be with the other guy I just want to have fun but I want my family with my baby's father.... Take him back?

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Don't get back with someone who has cheated on you in the past . He did once he will do it again . And he saw you were doing good without him so that's why he decides to come back in your life

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Well being single and having fun only lasts so long family lasts forever but if baby daddy can't commit there is no use in going back

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If he's cheated on you I'd stay gone. It's incredibly hard to leave someone, especially since you two have a kid together but you deserve better. Not to mention his behavior will inevitably teach your daughter that it's acceptable for a man to treat her like that.

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Sounds like you just need to do you! You are the only person in charge of your happiness! Be happy! life is too short not to be happy! I want my future children to look at my husband and I and think, wow that's true love and happiness, and want that for themselves. Being with your baby's father just because you want a little family but not truly happy isn't the right choice.

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Take your time. That's all I'm going to say because I don't want to tell you how to feel. But fr. Take your time.

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Have an open relationship? I really don't know. Do what makes you happy

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nah dont go back. have fun

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He's your child's family not yours.. Maybe im wrong cause I have no kids and see it diff but staying with someone who's doesn't make you happy and take care of you the way they should ( not cheating and whatever) won't help your child.. They will see and feel yor pain ... Hope everything works out whatever you decide !!

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Ew don't take him back. Cheaters are unworthy of anyone

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He's only sniffing around because this new guy is showing interest. Enjoy your time being single babes and don't allow your ex to be part of your life. He can still be a dad without you to being together. Good luck doll face 😘

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