It's been 9 months, I don't have my period yet but I feel it coming. I am all bloated and crampy. But you know what it's okay. 1. Because if I got pregnant this month I would have a baby very close to my oldest birthday if I get pregnant the cycle after this one they will have a birthday the same month as each other which I really don't want. 2. My sister in law just found out she is pregnant and I would love to give her some time to be the only pregnant one in the family. Our families don't even know we are trying to have a baby mostly because I have had three miscarriages and I just rather keep it between my husband and I until I am at 12 weeks. Just in case I lose the baby.