My husband grew up with this guy..( gonna call him Bob). I'm friends with bob's sister and my husband is bestfriends with her husband. I like Bob. They all live together. And we go over there house all the time. Hang out. We are like family. Well I've always thought that my friends brother was cute. But I'm married. But I havnt seen him for a couple months and I was trying to set him up with one of my friends( cause she liked him) it didn't work out. He didn't like her. He is eye candy! This guy is smooth and good looking and knows how to dress. He asks questions and just loves to talk and get to know you. Idk why once I saw him again I just felt something different. I can't take my eyes off of him and its like I'm under a spell or something. He is only 1 year older than me ( my husband is 5 almost 6 years older than me) I feel alive and excited when I'm around this guy. I know it wrong and I've never cheated on my husband and don't want to....but I'm catching myself fantasizing about this man. How can I stop this???????

I try not to make it obvious that im thinking about him. But i think my husband has got a feeling that I'm into him. The other night my husband wanted to box him( play fight)...and now every time they see each other they always want to box each other. And he always makes jokes about beating up my husband or something...just kidding but I'm not sure if he is flirting or if that means bob is challenging my husband or just it means that they are just playing. Because before my husband was super jealous and didn't even like me talking to Bob.