I need tips on how to stay positive and not be hateful. After years of never getting a BFP and seeing so many negative tests it's hard to be happy for all my pregnant friends and family. I almost feel hateful towards my fertile friends. They tell me to quit trying so hard, or complain about pregnancy or problems with kids and it kills me every time. I'd love to have a baby. I feel like time is against me and have fallen into debt and a deep depression. Is it time to really quit trying?