What should I do?

Earlier today I told my boyfriend that I was feeling frisky and he said that if I was patient that I would get a suprise. So I was patient and was being nice, then he comes home plays his game until 9:10 and as I'm watching my show he comes and asks how my day was and we talk about simple things like that as our conversation comes to an end he asks if I am still frisky and I said yes. So after I try to go down on him he says that he's tired and that we'll continue this another time. I really don't want to wait any longer but I don't want to get in trouble by him. (He's not aggressive but we both give punishments to each other if we're bad) what should I do to not make myself frisky that doesn't involve masterbating?