I dont see how so many ppl are hatef towards their MIL. Im not saying that to be mean or rude in any way but i see alot of posts lately about woman who are really hateful and spiteful towarss their MIL. Yes i understand that sometimes they can be annoying and some ppl have valid reasons. Im grateful that even when mine does something annoying im still happy to have her. Plus that is your husbands mother! I would never be rude or disrespectful to her or make him choose me over her! I guess bc i lost my mom at 19... i would never want to put a wedge btw a son and a mother. Yes its hard to bite your tongue sometimes but in the end you are doing it for your husband. Half the time they mean no harm and there is always a way to be respectful and get your point across.

Sorry for the vent!