I started out my pregnancy about 100 overweight. While trying to conceive I did lists of research on healthy pregnancies while over weight and yet everyone and their mom wants to tell me what's "healthy". I was complaining that I had been losing weight and my family basically congratulated me and said I should be trying to gain no weight at all while pregnant. And now anytime I complain about anything pregnancy related they all just assume its weight related. I have rough pregnancies I was 20lbs UNDER weight with my first 6 years ago and I still had the same problems so sure let's just say its all because I'm fat. Ugh.