I realized something

I started seeing someone (we had a drunken hookup on Christmas) and for some reason I always want to rush into having sex, almost like it confirms to me that the guy really does care. But we haven't had sex sober yet and I am actually happy with taking things slow. I need to realize that sex doesn't mean everything in a relationship and it's almost as if he respects me more for wanting to take things slow. And it means that when it does eventually happen that it will be even more special. Just had to share this since I'm sure there are other ladies in a similar situation! Looking forward to seeing where things go.