Does your BF expect sex

Question

My boyfriend expects sex every time I see him. I can see his side because we don't see each other as much as we would like bc I have kids and a job but sometimes all I want to do is sit and be in his arms and just not have sex. Does that make sense?

The sex we do have is freaking awesome and feels so good but sometimes I'm just not feeling it.. I have brought it up to him and he says it's been a couple days and he's horny or he will even say I just turn him on that much..

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Sex should never feel like an obligation. The few times my boyfriend has been to expectant or demanding of sex when I'm not in the mood, I just stop having sex with him for a while. He goes right back to his normal self after that. I think it's just bc it's become so much of what you guys do when you're together that he's conditioned himself to expect it and since it's fun he doesn't see that as a bad thing. You've just gotta stop making it a habit and it'll go back to being something fun and special.

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Why can't you have both? Cuddle and sex? I have never denied my boyfriend sex because I wasn't "in the mood". I personally feel that if I wasn't fulfilling my partners sexual needs and he finds it somewhere else then I shouldn't get upset if he does.

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Yes like if it's not happening everyday things get ugly real quick...

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My FwB doesn't expect sex every time he comes over, but I do! Luckily, once I put the moves on him, he's almost always amicable to the idea. 😉

Does your BF expect sex

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