Will I ever get my big O?

Autumn
Hi, I'm Autumn, I'm 17 years old and sexually active. I have had multiple partners, who usually get off in less than 5 minutes 😒, but I've yet to experience an orgasm. I've even tried the shower head, vibrators, clit sensitizer, etc. I've talked to my mom and she said she didn't have hers until later in life when she really loved someone.. I've been in 2 serious relationships where I felt love and had sex, but no orgasm. :( don't get me wrong, I still enjoy having sex, I'd just love to feel the ultimate pleasure that is the female orgasm. If anyone has any advice, I'd love to hear it.