the hobbies

Is it wrong to have hobbies? Just asking because I've read multiple post talking some bull mess. Let me break it down a woman post that she cheated on her husband Because he play video games and don't take care of their kids and doesn't really show her attention. 1 I'm a soon to be father and I game but I'll be damned if I let a game come in between family and loved ones. Now with that being said how can she use that against him as a legit reason to cheat? If gaming is your hobbie then let it be if cooking, fishing,sports hell anything under the blue sky is your hobby then how can your spies or significant other have a problem with now yes spending too much time doing can weigh on it but that's for you to bring up to that person not just sit there and think they are gonna wake and just change is just ridiculous. Honest truth no one likes to be bored but if that's his hobbie then maybe you should soul search and ask can you handle this, is this what you want? Or better yet what's you're hobby? Don't make your significant other your hobby and don't use their hobby as a reason to cheat. Remember that lust is only temporary. Thanks for reading