Okay ladies I need your help. My boyfriend and I ( who live together) were making out and I proceeded to give him a blow job(not the first blow job I've given him)  It was great at first and I wasn't gagging for a really long time even he made a comment about it, then I started gagging, not something foreign to my bf and me. We had already had sex today and he didn't want to have anymore sex, but I got on top of him and started grinding. I really wanted to have sex because I didn't think I could make him come if I kept gagging with the blowjob but he adamantly didn't want to have sex again. What do I do? Tell him that I felt inadequate in my sucking skills? Or do I also tell him I am hurt that he doesn't want to have sex?