After nearly 3 years of trying, I'm losing hope.

Hilary • Hi! I`m 37 and the hubby and I have been TTC for baby #1 for nearly 3 years.
I was supposed to start on 1/08 but nothing has happened since. My cycle average is 26 days but I'm currently on day 33. I'm extremely exhausted, sore breasts, night sweats for the past 3 nights, gums bleed when I brush, bloating in my lower belly, mild cramping, and I just got a cold yesterday! Took a test today and it was negative 😔