Do yall believe in 2nd chance???

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I really don't I think " once a cheater always a cheater " my boyfriend cheated on me ...it broke my heart into pieces ( I loved and trusted him too much )💔💔😭

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I told my fiancé in the beginning, "you better love that girl if you cheat, because I'm gone forever if you do." He knows there are no second chances. I refuse to live a life of paranoia and mistrust. I can't deal with the secret phone searches and the wondering if he's actually at work or fucking someone. It's too much for me, I can't and won't do it. So if he wants to destroy everything we built together, It better be worth it. If a man thinks he can cheat without any real repercussions, he will do it again.

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even though I'm not one for second chances I think yes but not to CHEATING!! I would give a second chance to someone I deeply loved if we didn't end for a bad reason and if he didn't cheat and if it was gonna be worth it but if anyone cheated on me I'd kick their ass out and not blink a eye lid for Them!! You can do better babe, if they can cheat they wasn't worst it, more girls need to know their worth. Yes it hurts but you can do so much better and deserve better!! In time you'll see that ❤️

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I think that if you're dating (or even engaged), move on and don't look back. This could be a horrible indicator of a rough future together full of fights and trust issues. However, if you're married and have children together, leaving isn't so easy. Aside from the lifelong commitment you have made to one another (for better or worse) there's an added level of financial, legal and custody issues involved, so walking away wouldn't be so easy. I also think it depends on the "type" of cheating. Physical? Emotional? How long? Did he come to you in honesty? Did you catch him in the act? Etc.

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I believe in a second chance. When I met my husband we were 19.. Young and immature. He got drunk and made out with some girl at a bar, and went to strip clubs. I was so mad, but I loved him. Now we are married and he's a completely different person. Just needed to mature some :) so yes I do! I never ever think my husband would do something like that again.

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I was in your shoes a while ago & I had to let him go. it was like every time I look at him I hated him & I was disgusted by him to the point where his touch irritated me , him saying he loved me pissed me off it was like him period just threw me off everyyyy time so I let him go because I wasn't happy I couldn't trust him & I just didn't feel the same towards him. so my advice to you is if you can't forgive him you might as well let him go because you clearly can't trust him anymore.

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at some point pain may turn into hatred & im guessing that's what happened with me. I hope you get through this because I know it hurts & I know your pain just stay strong

Do yall believe in 2nd chance???

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