Should I be honest ???

Question

My guy and I have been dealing with each other for 2 years. I love him so much and i know he really does care for me and love me. We talk everyday, he looks out for me when I need but often times I wonder if he wants to take things to the next level. We aren't exclusive. I feel like he's keeping his options opened so I'm deciding its only right to start keeping mine opened as well. I'm just wondering is it best I tell him I'm going to start seeing other people or should I remain quiet about it ??? I know he'll probably be upset, but I'm starting to feel like I don't matter enough for him to want to be exclusive with me. And we've had a discussion about this before. He's "waiting for the right time".

Added: I'm not questioning if I should see other people or stay with him. Ive already made my mind up about that and know how I'm going to handle that. I'm strictly asking should I be honest and open about it or is it better remaining none of his business ???

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2 years is a long time to not be exclusive . Talk to him about your concerns and let him know how you're feeling . If he's not ready and you are I would say to move on . Time is too precious

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Time to cut strings and open up those space in your heart for someone else. No one has time for that. Some awesome guy, who only wants to be with you, is waiting for the opportunity to hop into your life!

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Yes be up front. That way everyone knows what's going on in the relationship.  He may decide he's ready to become exclusive when he finds out that you aren't going to wait around on him forever.

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2 years?! 2 years and he won't even make you his girlfriend. Honey, you're a fuck buddy. 
If you e caught feelings,Get out, get out. If he liked you in that way, he'd have already made you his girlfriend.

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2 years and y'all ain't in a relationship? 🙋🏼 bye, see ya!

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Well I don't blame you. 2 years is a long time to not know what's really going on. I'd have a come to Jesus if you like him. But any man, shoot person, after 2 years of something and they say they're waiting for the right time... Nope, hop off that train, if he doesn't know after 2 years, it's either he's just not that into you, likes you as a friend or can't make a decision to save his life. 
I'd let him know that this arragment is no longer working for you and that you need to move on.

Should I be honest ???

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