There's been a lot of porn talk and there's such strong opinions both ways and I'm just really curious as to how one would be okay with porn use in a relationship where fidelity to their partner is supposed to be the number one priority. Let me explain. I'm just very curious how one draws the line between porn being okay and other things not okay when I feel it's practically the same thing. I will give an example. So, I've read a ton of comments and it seems like the reason porn use is totally fine in a mongomous relationship because they are not physically touching someone else or inserting parts in another person. That seems like the number one reason why people are fine with it being used in their relationship. With that being said I don't see how someone would be okay if their SO was in the same room with a naked girl playing with her lady parts in front of them trying to get them hard. And then the SO participating in that behavior by getting out their erect penis and coming by watching someone that isn't you. They didn't touch anyone they just played with themselves. Most people I feel wouldn't be okay with that but they're ok with porn and it's the exact same thing. Porn still releases the same bonding chemical that sex does it doesn't make it less sex if you will because it's "fake" and on a screen. I'm just very curious to where you draw the line then when I feel porn makes fidelity lines very blurred. Thoughts?

Edit*** whoa whoa whoa! This has blown up too much to individually respond to but I will say to all of those that said I need to keep my nose out of your business because porn is great and lovely etc etc... ladies, I'm not the porn police. I will not be invading your bedrooms or your husband's when he's doing his business to scold both of you about watching porn. You're safe there haha. I have no high horse to climb off of and I dont "hate porn" because of all these insecurities that somehow all you strangers absolutely know I have because of my view on porn. Haha. I think a lot of you took this post to the bedroom with you and made it way too personal. Come on. Anyway, it's a matter of opinion and thanks to all of those that posted without the typical you need to back off you're insecure and actually gave me some very different insight. :)