Sex after D&C/D&E

Keke • Mama of Daisy Evelyn, our beautiful Rainbow Baby 🌈 after Monochorionic Monoamniotic twin loss
Hi all, I'm new to this board unfortunately. I lost my momo twin girls at almost 19w a few weeks ago. Last Wednesday I had a D&E procedure. I've been on pelvic rest since I was 14 weeks. We aren't going to start TTC again for a few cycles but my sex drive is coming back and we are ready to start baby dancing again. I should be cleared from pelvic rest next week. When did you all start BDing agian? And did you use lube? I'm afraid lube could cause an infection.