I waited until I was at least 6mos pregnant to tell my family & his family I was pregnant. Why? Because they suppose to be as happy as I am. His sister and her friends telling me we should have used condoms. Or I should have kept my legs closed. Now they wonder why ppl don't tell them nothing. I'm 37 yrs old and we already have one child together about to have another one. Why do ppl act like they more miserable about your situation then you suppose to be. I'm not miserable I'm happy we had a boy 2015 now we're having a girl 2016. If I didn't want another baby I know my options. I didn't need to hear that coming from 3 wmn that has no man. My side of the family was happy for me and non judgemental.