Long story short. I had been friends with this girl through high school and out of high school. She got pregnant at 21 and everything was all good for a few years until she started using drugs and lost custody of her child. A few years later she got pregnant, got an abortion and went on with life. Later she mees a man, gets pregnant, and this man has been in prison since this child was born and she has been using drugs ever since she was pregnant the last time. Now she has met another man, got pregnant and this man went to prison before she gave birth to his kid. She used meth her entire pregnancy. I tried, and tried to get her help but you cannot offer help to someone that doesn't want it...now I let her live in my home cause she was homeless with two children who's father have no part in their lives. I had strict rules, no dribking, drugs, parties, people over, and in bed by 10pm. She broke these rules over and over so I kicked her out. She's at a homeless shelter and I feel TERRIBLE!! I gave her many chance to get her lif in order, borrowed her over $7000 in the past few years. Should I give her another chance? She's a great friend when she's sober but I cannot do it anymore.