No more sex?!?

Question

My husband and I have been discussing the baby thing. But I've chosen to set it aside until we can find a better way to talk about it. But it's been months without sex.

We both made promises to each other after we realized he had a severe porn addiction. In solidarity we decided neither of us would do anything solo. Which for a while was bothersome but became easier overtime.

But now I'm starting to feel this overwhelming loneliness. This man has become the worst love maker I have ever been with. How can someone I love so much have become so disinterested? We're 28 and have only been married for three years. I'm not ready to stop having sex. And if do he just lies there and when he's finished he goes to sleep. I have tried everything. He just doesn't care.

Answer

As a married couple, sometimes you have to find your way together. You said he may be lacking confidence to please you? So maybe you two need to light some candles, play romantic music, and kiss each other all over and just find the spots that please you. Move his hand over your vagina. You do all the work and just show him what feels good. Maybe after a couple times, he will know how and gain the confidence.

If that doesn't work, I think you should see a marriage counselor. Sex is a vital part of marriage. Without it, you lose intimacy and all things crumble from there. You both are too young to cut ties with sex.

Find yourselves together.

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My hubby been the same , once I mentioned a baby he gone down hill and not trying , I don't know why , I've tried talking to him , he tells me he wants a family , he dosent seem over excited when I tell him I'm late for my period either. I don't have regular periods what is prob one reason he not so excited but wishing 4 days I've always come on , if I test always negative ;(

I've tried everything to not mentioning sex to saying about it !! Tried winding him up with sexy photos etc to try and get him excited but nothing ;(

Answer

I'm so sorry you and your husband are going through this. I would recommend couples therapy, maybe sex therapy if you both feel comfortable with it. The best thing to do is just keep the line of communication open between you two. Prayers being sent your way.

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Could he still be watching porn? Maybe some counseling and I know it's extremely hard but no baby talk pregnancy talk your relationship should come first from the outside looks like he needs some support and yalls relationship could use a little tlc think dates sweet love notes connecting on a deeper level be a safe place for him to talk about his porn addiction and how you may be able to better support him I love the fireproif movie, the love dare, making marriage work, the excellent wife, and the five love languages

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Have u talked to him why he doesnt want to have sex anymore?

No more sex?!?

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