Do you complain about your SO to your friends and family? Like point out their flaws, mistakes and everything that they don't know how to do right? My sister and couple of friends does this a lot for every stupid little thing and sometimes it makes me feel bad for their husbands. I feel like no one needs to know that part of him. I just think that his flaws are between her  and him and that it's nobody's else's business. I honestly don't feel comfortable telling anyone my husband's flaws because I wouldn't like it if he did the same about me. I think it's disrespectful to him and his privacy. My husband and I believe that if there is something we don't like about each other, we just talk and try to work it out.