Where do I go from here!

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I lost my sweet pea today! My miscarriage was heartbreaking and painful..... I'm just getting it together mentally that it's over for me! I hope everyone in my shoes feel better soon!

I'm not sure where do I go from here! I have a sweet 4 year old daughter and was hoping for baby number 2!

Do I try again? Do I just let it go? My mind is all over the place right now!

My husband is super and very supportive of my decision on the matter. However, having a miscarriage is very emotionally stress and physically pain! Where do I go from here?

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I'm very sorry for your loss. All of your questions are only things that you can answer. You will know when and if you're ready to try again.

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I also miscarried on the 17th at 8 weeks. after a very stressful week of just spotting it happened out of no where. There was no pain, no warning. The worst physical thing I ever went through was getting my wisdom taken out. This was by far the worst thing to happen to me. I will never forget how I could feel everything passing through me. To top it all off the doctor told me I have a bicornuate uterus that could affect fertility. It might be silly to say after only 8 weeks but i don't like not being pregnant.  This  was my first shot of tycoon and it left me scarred. I want a baby for me and my husband to love so badly. I know that when and if I get pregnant again I will be terrified of getting my heart broken again. My husband has be absolutely amazing through all this and I know he understands how I feel cause he feels the same way. I am lucky to have him

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I too am dealing with the same questions. I don't know how to feel or what to do. It's been 3 days since our loss. My days feel cloudy and I feel numb. I have no appetite. My fiancé has been very supportive but I don't feel like he is as burdened as I am. I don't resent him for that, I think men just deal with it differently. The doctor said we could try again as soon as my next cycle. And I want to be pregnant again but I don't want to have sex. I don't want to have to wait to see if we conceived. I guess I just want my baby back and to be healthy. I am with you and praying for you. This isn't an easy road.

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I am so sorry for your loss. I am in the same boat. I had a chemical pregnancy and I have a beautiful 4yr old little girl who wants to be a big sister SO badly. 
I unfortunately made the mistake of telling her I was pregnant and then had to break the news to her last night that it was not happening right now. 
She was so sad and it just makes it so much worse for me, I hate to disappoint her. 😢. 
Hang in there girl!! This to shall pass.

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Hi! I am sorry for your loss. I know it is hard but you have to give yourself time. You don't have to decide anything now.. Just let other people be there for you. And be there for yourself. Its hard to even start processing it, I know.. Give yourself time.. Your little pea will always be there in your hearts!!!

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