We haven't told really anyone we are expecting.. except our parents.. mine understand that with me living across the country I won't be coming out for a baby shower and I honestly don't want one.. my husband's family however is demanding that we have one in his home town.. I don't want to go cause I can't travel, and I just don't want all the attention and questions and my MIL basically making me feel like I'm not worthy of her son..

My husband agrees with me that if they want to get us something they can and send it to us, it's his family that is demanding we show up and plan this huge party.. ugh.. any advice