How do people get pregnant on accident when I can't even get pregnant on purpose?

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I have a few friends that have gotten pregnant because of a one night stand and I'm sitting here wondering how the hell did that happen. I can't even get pregnant when I'm charting and trying. I Dont get it. Does anyone else feel like this?

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Amen girl!!! I spent 10 years trying not to get pregnant thinking if he even looked at my vagina I would get pregnant! Now I can have unprotected sex every dang day of the month and nothing!!! So frustrating!

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Yep lol it's so frustrating! Especially when you're sensible, in a much better position and actually really really want it. It's all you can think about and all you can talk about then someone else just looks at a baby and they are pregnant 😂

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Like this... Lol

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I know exactly how you feel and I am reminded of it everyday.  I'm a teacher and one of the custodians at work, my guess mid 30s, is pregnant. Now don't go there this story has nothing to do with her job but rather why she got pregnant. She had a child pretty young because he turned 19 making her ineligible to recieve state benefits anymore. Well that pissed her off "what no more free ride?!" Solution, have a baby so she can keep getting the benefits. And to top this off she chose a wonderful dad who just got out of prison after serving time on drug dealing charges. So everyday as I leave the building and the custodians start cleaning, I see her pushing a broom along the hallways, her belly growing bigger and bigger and think to myself why can she a totally unfit mother get knocked up with the snap of her fingers and I a contributing citizen, in a stable relationship who is financially ready can't seem to make it happen?

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When he cums in you keep your legs in the air and let it sit inside for 20 to 30 mins. That should work lol did for me. Took us 3 months to get pregnant. But it obviously worked I'm almost 14 weeks pregnant!

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Thank you!! I say this to my husband alllll the time!!!

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My ex-fiance and I tried for five months to get pregnant. He told me his last girlfriend told him she had his child. Of course she could have lied about it. He and I have stayed in touch after our breakup. He and his wife have been trying for six years with noting. I thought it was me but it looks like it was him. I'm gonna be honest I have been trying to get pregnant with every guy I have been with sense. Still nothing. My friends are having babies right and left and I'm wondering what is wrong.

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I feel like that all. the. time.

I also wonder why I was so perfect with my birth control before, when it's clearly so difficult for me to get pregnant. I've been trying for over a year. Just have to believe it will be when it's meant to be.

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I seriously sat in my room crying on this same subject with my husband. We have been trying for at least 2yrs and 4 mths. I've miscarried twice. But my brother-in-law and his gf had a beautiful heathy baby and they weren't ttc. They were together for a couple of months before she found out she was pregnant. How can woman who don't want kids or never even tried TTC have beautiful healthy happy baby's but the couples who try so hard just can't.  I do love my niece though. But I just don't understand .

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Oh I feel ya! One friend got pregnant while on birth control, and it was the first time her and her bf even had sex lol. My good friend and her husband weren't trying, and always had protected sex- the one time.. Literally one time they decided to do it unprotected, bam pregnant. Lol. I don't get it.

How do people get pregnant on accident when I can't even get pregnant on purpose?

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