Hey everyone. My name is Andria and I am 23 years old. I have 2 beautiful children ages 3.5 and 2. On July 22, 2015 I had a little pink plus sign that would soon be blessing us with baby number 3. But on thanksgiving at 21 weeks and 5 days we decided to check on our sweet babygirl because being military and a momma to 2 crazy toddlers I couldn't remember the last time I felt my baby. That's when they hit us with the news. Our sweet girl was gone. I stayed in the hospital for 5 days after being poked and prodded at 2 different hospitals trying to start labor before they decided to do a D&E. I guess what I'm trying to get at is, is it wrong of me for trying to conceive already? Doctors have given us no insight on when is a good time and when is not. I've looked online that some people recommend you wait at least one cycle and others prefer if you wait 3. Pease no bashing, just would like some insight. Thank you.