I'm considering have sex with this guy, which over the past couple years I've been on and off with in the "talking stage" and flirted amendously with, but I'm not 100% sure that I should. He sort of has a loud mouth and I'm scared that he'll tell someone and then it'll be heard throughout the school. I don't want people to know my business. I want us to be a low key thing, but I'm unsure of what his actions will be like after sex. Since he is a virgin and I'm not. Maybe I should start off slowly with oral? Please give me advice