Ok so over the last couple days my fiance keeps bringing up the question " if a girl kissed him, and he pushed her off, would I still want him to tell me even if he stopped it?" or asking other questions about if he did something or went somewhere with his friends that he knew I wouldn't approve of would I want to know? My answer was yes, I wanna know, just I don't want there to be any secrets. Then he said that men lie mostly to try and save a girls feelings, because they know the truth can sometimes cause more issues then it's worth. Anyway, I told him that if you live someone that you should be honest no matter what. That eventually the truth will come out and it will be a lot worse then if they were honest from the jump. I'm not sure where all these questions come from. It was really random and he brought it up the other night while I was making dinner. Now I'm a little suspicious of him. Like Idk if he's done something and has a guilty conscience or what? Advice? Am I putting too much thought into it?